To help explain the nature of female sexuality, and how to turn women on, I came up with a concept called "The Economics Of Sex." Understanding this concept will radically improve your sex life. You see, for thousands of years, both men and women have been mentally programmed or conditioned to view having sex as a transaction just like buying a loaf of bread or paying for a haircut or beauty treatment. In this economic exchange scenario, the woman is supposed to hold ALL the supply and the men are supposed to have ALL the demand. Mothers teach this to their daughters and sisters teach this to their siblings. Men teach this to their sons. But the worst thing about this economics is that women really demand a very HIGH price for "giving up" the sex (obviously the exception to this rule is when a man pays for a cheap prostitute). And this price is not just in money terms alone. In addition to money, women often enjoy making men wait a long TIME before they "give" sex, while making them perform a million acts of sacrifice like listening to their problems, taking them shopping or getting them to do household tasks like putting up shelves and furniture (in my 'clueless guy' days, I have found myself putting up so many shelves for women I should have been a carpenter.) Now, for the women it is the opposite situation. A woman will think "Unless this guy meets my HIGH standards he hasn't got a chance in hell of me GIVING him any sex tonight. (or tomorrow, or next week, or in the next 6 months e.t.c.)" Now, I don't know about you, but I always found this economics very depressing for men. It can sometimes be humiliating and demoralizing and could really negatively affect a man's self esteem and confidence in himself and his ability to attract women. Women love sex just as much as men do. They don't just supply it, they also want it just as bad. They just take longer to get turned on than men and so they can at least their hormones, their bodies and thanks to our society, their subconscious brains can do a very good job of ACTING like they can take it or leave it while men's very instant sexual arousal system cannot and so we naturally appear like we want it MORE than women. Think about the impact of what I'm saying to you here. I am exposing the biggest ever LIE that your father, mother, brothers, sisters, friends, teachers, role models and so on have never been able to explain to you because THEY DON'T KNOW IT and so could not tell you any different. And now that you know, I hope you can begin to join my world where you have an enlightened view of the TRUE economics of sex between men and women. Once you start to think this way, you would have joined the very FEW men in the universe who understand that in order to get all the sex that you want from a woman, you don't have to "get lucky," or beg her for months on end, or buy her a million drinks, or take any emotional abuse from her, or allow her condescending reaction to you make you feel guilty for wanting sex from her. You will realize once and for all that all you have to do to succeed and get laid everyday is learn to turn women on in the CORRECT way and THEY will jump on you. |