Have you ever longed to be with someone special? Would you like to know how to attract who you want into your life?

The short answer to the above is to become the person you are looking for. The greater work lies in learning how to become simply irresistible.

What is it like to be irresistible, so you can attract who you want? Pay attention to these key points:

* Your Focus

The essence of irresistible attraction is to draw into your life and allow only those events and people who bring you joy. Focus on areas that are most important to attract the best in life--not everything in life.

* Who You Are

Are you stressed? Are the people around you stressed? What you have going on around you is a reflection of who and where you are. Are you feeling lack? Do you think that by acquiring more things, you will be happier? Start with what you have and take better care of it, instead of trying to acquire more.

* What You Do

You can increase the quality of what you attract by becoming more attractive to yourself. Live your life in ways that make you proud.

* Details

The genius of life is in the details. The smallest choices can be as far-reaching as the largest choices. Work on changing one small unproductive habit and watch how it affects you.

Becoming simply irresistible starts with taking a small step within, to look at how you can become attractive to yourself. Take a look at the above and begin your new life today.

Tonja Weimer

Tonja Evetts Weimer is a Master Certified singles relationship and life coach, speaker, syndicated columnist and author.

Tonja is a full time professional coach with a practice in Greenville, SC. She helps individuals, especially singles, re-craft their lives and find happiness and success in their career and relationships. Some of Tonja's professional activities include:

==> Syndicated singles relationship columnist, writing SAVVY DATING, a weekly column read by over a million readers in many U.S newspapers. Tonja's column addresses relationship and life issues of interest to all adults, but particularly to the over 110 million singles in the U.S. Tonja has also had articles published in New Woman, Hope, and House Beautiful magazines, and has won 3 Matrix Awards for her writing.

==> Motivational speaker, Tonja has been a keynote presenter at national and international conferences over the last 30 years.

==> Author of materials for educators and parents (7 books, six music albums and 2 videos), which have won 22 awards.

Some Speaking and Media Highlights:

==> Keynote speaker for 2004 Women?s Issues Network Conference, Sumter, SC.

==> Keynote speaker for 2002 Parents as Teachers International Conference, St. Louis, MO.

==> Keynote speaker for 1999 International Conference for Children & Adults with Attention Deficit Disorder.

==> Keynote speaker for 1998 European Education Conference, in Mannheim, Germany.

==> Keynote speaker in 35 U.S. states at educational conferences.

==> Presenter at the International Special Olympics in Notre Dame, at the request of Eunice Kennedy Shriver.

==> Created Space Songs for Children, at the request of NASA (album taken into space by astronauts three times.)

==> Appeared on CNN?s Showbiz Today and many other TV shows.

Educational and Professional Qualifications:

==> National Fellow (U.S. Dept. of Education.) M.A. in Human Development and Education, with an emphasis on creativity.

==> Master Certified Singles Relationship Coach, Relationship Coaching Institute.

==> Personal Life Coach, Graduate, Institute for Life Coach Training.

==> Member, International Coaching Federation